Reduce Your Anger

   When I talk about "patient", what do you got on your mind? What do you think about it? Most of people know about patient is all about when you're waiting for something and it wastes your time but you try to not be mad. Well, technically patient is about an ability or willingness to suppress restlessness or annoyance when confronted with delay. So we hold our anger and keep it stable even when we have to face the most horrible and harsh things in the world! Some person told me that we have like limited patient. So people mad and goes crazily cross because they can not hold their anger stable on their limited patient. It's actually pretty hard to hold your anger down specially when you're in the sensitive mood. Okay, this time I'm going to tell you my experience of patient.

   One day, my parents wanted to eat in a restaurant. So me, my sister and brother ate there. But of course we ordered before eat it. My father called a waitress to help us ordering the meals. Then everyone has ordered their own meals except my brother, he didn't finish. Because he must order his drink. My brother chose he's going to drink a glass of water. Actually he could order more differently but the time is running and we were really starving and he was out of choice. Then my brother's water served on our table. He drank it in a hurry so he drank a half of the water in the glass. After that my father's order was served. He ordered a cup of hot tea. And so as my mom. My brother wanted it too then my father called the same waitress and asked him to exchange the water into a cup of tea. Then he smiled and took the glass of water and went back with a cup of tea for my brother. My brother drank it a few times. Then finally my drink was coming. I ordered a glass of avocado juice. Then my brother cried and he asked to exchange his drink to be same as mine. So my father called the waitress again and asked to change it. The waitress smiled and turned back with the same smile and a glass of avocado juice. My brother drank it. But he didn't ask for changing his drink again.

   You know what? I was feeling ashamed! You know what was my brother doing reminded me when I wasn't consistent to my choices too. But I just thought about this waitress, that he smiled whenever we (my family) bothering him for changing our order. If I was the waitress I'll be out there mad because I have to go up and downstairs to bring the meals. My feet will get hurt. And it'll be very exhausting! But this waitress didn't do it. He was just keep calm and serve people nicely. He stayed patient. It's hard to find a kindness like this guy because most of the waitress I met in this restaurant were impatient. And it won't be great to be served by impatient waitress..

   And that day when I was cleaning up to help my mom. She asked my sister to help me out but she ignored it. Then my mother was cross but I told her that I can do it all myself. And then I don't know why my mom helped me to finish the housework. (it's way more shorter than the first story isn't it?)

Patient people give the more love because they would rather choose to give up than to have a fight. They are actually wanted to fight but they hold it. They don't want to make even bigger problem with other. So, if you need to face 'heavy' things, face it calm. "Keep calm and be patient"