Standing in the Spotlight

#self-confidence

Have you ever know about confidence? Do you always feel confident? I think in this post, we're going to talk about confidence deeper than just its definition. Well, okay, confidence or confident is a feeling when you trust yourself that you can do some things and you'd like to show it to people. Though confidence and confident are different. You can see the difference between them, right?

   Okay, so YOU THINK or WE think that it seems very easy to be done. But to be sure, it's incredibly hard for those who actually love to hide themselves. For whom that does not put their trust on their abilities. Whom that can’t stand in the spotlight, I mean, they might have fear to be watched by everybody. So they would rather to hide behind the curtain than to show up and shine the world. 

   I have some friends that they are actually love to be invisible. I don’t even know why. I’ve tried to take them away from their comfort zone into the world of spotlight. But they always resist it. As a good friend I don’t care what they say, well, I want them to be better, if I listen to them and stop trying, what kind of friend am I? So in every school subjects I tell them to do what they can do.

    I always tell them to go further! I know everybody has their own limitations. But all I want is just for them to do and be their best! What kind of normal person that doesn’t want to be the best? Although, yeah, I have to admit that sometimes I got myself hiding on the back stage when I can actually be the star.

   All teachers and friends had told me to bring myself up. To show them what I got. I actually would love to and really want to take the chances but I just feel like, what if something would go wrong? What if I can’t do my best on stage? What if they wouldn’t be impressed? I know exactly what you feel. But we got to make some moves around here to get ourselves known by other. Here are some tips to be confident:

1.       Recognize your talents and good qualities and write them down.

2.       Think of the obstacles that stand in the way of your confidence.

3.       Remember that everyone struggles with confidence.

4.       See confidence as a process, not a singular achievement.

5.       Smile.

6.       Embrace your interests.

7.       Build your confidence by helping others.

8.       Drop those who bring you down.

9.       Expect success.

10.   Take risks.

   There they are. So I hope ALL OF US could be more confident but keep it in mind that you shouldn’t ever over-doing it! Okay, I think that’s all. I hope this writing of minds cans really blinding up our bottles! 

Cheerio!