Friends with Haters. Yay or Nay?

So, long time no see. I'm quite busy lately but I finally can make time for this blog to run. Uhm, now I've got nothing to talk about but the new friends I've got. Well, those friends are mostly my old friends that weren't actually friends of mine. So I just knew them and didn't interest to know much more about them. But this year I finally get to know most of them!

Is it only me who ever asked about how did we get so close to someone? I mean, how was the real beginning to make friends when you're actually have to make friend with someone else? Maybe for some people it's a very simple thing and they'll say that you don't have to study the steps, you just gotta do yours best. However I got lost sometimes. I've got very confused in how making friends with my (I won't say they're enemies but) haters. I know most of you don't want to read more about this topic but you really have to know! We need our haters! Not to mention that we need them to hate us more but to be friends although maybe they still talking behind your back.You'll never know when you're going to need these people.


Instead of giving you steps at how to make friends with the stalkers, I'll talk about how important they are so you might change your mind about hating them. Trust me, you'll need their hands one day! Maybe not today or this school years but in the future. The next days are depending on what your actions today.

So, haters aka stalkers (because mine are the real stalkers), is actually not that mean. There must be some kind of reason why they started to hating you. WE ALL DON'T EVER WANT TO ASK OF COURSE. What would the world think of us if we do? Ugh, can't! No need to ask. You just have to give yourself a time to have a reflection (it's some kind of looking at yourself, in self not physical). See if you've done something wrong or too perfect or hurtful. If you haven't then maybe it's a little misunderstanding that you think what you do is right but they don't think so. Despite the fact that we don't care  about them anymore, we have to be nice to them. The wise person in my house (Mom) always tells me that I don't have to think or even care about them but I still have to treat them nicely, be kind instead. Like talk to them, greet them and also give smiles. Although it's a little weird but I love it. Also I've been taught that kindness always wins so of course you'd rather to greet them with smile and help them than being such an icy cold person that nobody would ever wanted you. Be warm to whoever that treats you badly! They'll be surprised at your changes and starting to be nice to you as well. But not that drastically of course. They'll start from small points to bigger ones.

Right now I've been trying to make some with my haters. And some of them are not surprised because they've known me as a warm person. Wait, so why the hell are they hating me? Okay so I have to take away that question away and keep on acting nice to them. It's not wrong to spreading some love, right? 

Sincerely,
Admin.